Both Dawn and I have been intending to write a full-scale update on everything that's been going on in the last month or so, but we're both busy and distracted enough that whenever we actually have time to do it, we're not thinking about it. So apologies for the light posting.
Anyway, last friday was, of course, the fourth of July, and our family went out to Dumont Lake Park in Allegan County somewhere southwest of Hopkins (a shout out to 'Chelle on that one) and had a bunch of fun with Grammy and Papa and Auntie Tammi and Ella. Will did some swimming, Andie got to wear her new swimsuit and looked totally cute, and Dawn and I just sort of sat around, occasionally wandering out in the water or pushing Will on the swingset.
Well, as we were packing up to head home, all of the sudden Will is crying and I see blood. Lo and behold, he had fallen on the big plastic twisty slide and had opened up a half-inch gash on his chin that was laying wide open! After some parental deliberation and a call to the doctor, we decided that the best course of action would be to take him in to have it looked at and potentially stitched up, so off we went to the nice new St. Mary's Southwest center on Byron Center.
Will got to walk around for about 20 minutes with a numbing medicine-soaked cotton ball taped to his chin, which was kind of funny looking, but allowed him some time to play with his Bob the Builder "Kids," as he calls them (Rolly, Scoop, Benny and Muck, for those of you who know what this stuff is about).
The doctor had taken a look at the gash, and told us that she'd probably recommend that it be sutured shut, just to keep the size of the scar down, but that it was one of those things where we could weigh the benefit of having a smaller scar against the potential, well, trauma for Will of having to go through the stitching process. We decided to have him stitched up.
Initially, they wrapped him in a blanket to restrain him a little bit so the doctor could work on his chin, but that only worked for the first poke with a syringe (he got numbed again), and so we had to actually put him on a restraint board and velcro him into it. I even ended up standing behind his head holding his jaw in place, although I did have to sit down when I saw the doctor pulling at the cut with a giant tweezers thingie. ("A good father never passes out and falls on his child while assisting in a medical procedure," my dad used to say. Or not. Mostly he just stretched and said "harga barga barga barga." But I like to think that he'd say that if he knew I was going to be in a position to pass out during my child's medical procedure.)
He ended up with only one stitch in the middle of the wound, and a couple of Steri-strips that they put on either side of the stitch to keep the rest of the wound closed and protected. We were told to let the steri-strips fall off on their own, and not to pull them off. Naturally, after we got home about 20 minutes later, the first thing Will did was pull them off. He wandered out of the bathroom holding them in his hand saying, "these were the things that were hurting me."
In the end, Will did pretty well, and as we were walking out of the building he said, "you know, the doctors did a GREAT job."
Back-sass
Tue, 22.07.2008 18:20
That's one heck of a daughter!
Tue, 22.07.2008 17:14
priceless!!! that's one heck o f a good daddy-daughter pic!
Thu, 10.07.2008 10:47
I can't tell you guys how many times I asked him to define t hat particular phrase! I alwa ys thought that he was s [...]
Wed, 09.07.2008 11:40
Dad was wise. Very wise. I'm still finding meaning in "har ga barga barga" even now.
Wed, 09.07.2008 10:25
I'm assuming you're right abo ut the harga barga thing. It c ould have been interpreted as the "don't fall on your [...]